Tuesday, January 12, 2010

What We've Learned

I'm exhausted, but kind of need to process things, and feel this is a concrete way I can do that. So here are the highlights of our last two days at Mayo.

- We talked to a surgeon, and it "looks" like the soonest surgery would be is late next week, but more then likely the following week.

- All the preliminary testing indicates that the bones, lungs and liver appear to be cancer free.

- We had an ultrasound on the lymph nodes today, and unfortunately, they did find cause to do further testing. I will be have a lymph node biopsy early tomorrow morning.

- We got scheduled to see an oncologist Tuesday of next week (Jay's birthday).

I really, really, really miss my kids and the idea of staying here for as long as I think we are going to have to be down here without them is very hard. Sorry this is so short, but honestly, I have no more energy left today.

7 comments:

  1. Heather you are awesome:) Thanks for the updates. Sounds like lots of new things to learn each day. Stay positive and keep strong, you are brave as Stacia said. Thinking and praying lots for you all. Love Duane and Jodie

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  2. You don't know me, but I'm a good friend of your Aunt-in-love, Kathy Quamme. Hang in there, sweetie pie. All things happen for a reason and God is in charge. This seems to suck on first appearances, but God is in charge. Who can you bless and who is supposed to bless you along the way? Enjoy the ride (both ups and downs) because God is in charge. And He is Good. He has your best interest in mind. My prayers are with you.

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  3. Definitely some good news mixed in with the unknown! We can't wait to have you home, but for now, you need to be where you can get the help you need! It sounds like there is so much info to take in...hopefully your mind lets you rest tonight! Remember, your kiddos are in wonderful hands with Grandma this week, and if you need me, I am more than willing to step in next week til you can get home! :) I know I'm not "mom" but I can tell them lots of good stories about you! :)Missing you and praying!

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  4. Hi Heather - I heard about your site tonight when I got to work - WOW! It is great and your faith is absolutely inspirational! I am praying for God's guidance with your doctors and for Him to grant you confidence in you decisions. Take it one step at a time. I am also praying for both of you to get some rest - your days sound exhausting & close to overwhelming! Close, because I know you know that He is in control and will see you through this. Please know that we are right next door if your kids need anything. That includes if Grandma needs a break ;)

    Kim Jaenicke

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  5. Awww, Heather. Just had this emailed to me and it certainly has knocked the wind out of my sails. I will be asking God to surround you and your family with His love and presence, to give your doctors wisdom, and to give you His peace that passes understanding, cause this stuff is impossible to understand. Be strong.
    Julie Senum

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  6. Every time you talk about your kids and being away from them I get a little pain of empathy in my heart. I am praying for health, healing, wisdom, discerment and that TIME PASSES QUICKLY for you and your kids while you are apart.
    Love and Prayers,
    Sheila

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  7. Heather & Jay,
    I've been saying prayers for you. God has placed you heavily on many hearts. I pray that God will show the way for all to meet the many needs you are facing. I pray for the Doctors in presenting your options and for the care they will need to provide for you. I pray for your decernment and wisdom as you are going to have to make many choices for yourself quickly that will effect the rest of your life. I pray that God will wrap His loving arms around you so tight that you can feel His strength and love for you. I pray for your children as they struggle to understand what mommy is going through. I truly indentify with what is happening to you and can only say that each situation is unique and each persons choices are different. But......there is one constant, God. Place your eyes on Him. I'm a breast cancer survivor, Shelly K.

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